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Ministry is a divine mandate handed over to humanity to demonstrate the love of divinity. It is an opportunity to demonstrate divine agenda and concept to humanity. I started my ministry with Ghc 4.60. For the first two years of my ministry my total membership was under seven. I was tempted many times to give up but these are the  things i did that helped me. 

I started ministry not knowing what to teach or preach. What i used to do was to teach and preach the messages of my Spiritual father. I have learnt to value and treasure the voice of fathers. My spiritual father taught me that significant changes can be made when we take insignificant steps. Whenever I face a challenge that was above my strength, i would just ask for the inputs of my father. Godly counsel from my spiritual father helped me to be focused on my assignment,

In those days it was easy for me to give up on that which i was called to do in life and ministry. There were many times i decided to move back to Takoradi because the ministry was not working. I got to know that a person's commitment and obsession to his assignment is what determines whether he makes it or not. I decided to be faithful and committed to myself and my ministry.I sold myself out completely to my calling. I spent time visiting other ministries to learn what i did not know. I remember visiting 13 prophetic ministries to find out why they were succeeding or failing.

One of the secrets that helped me when I started off in ministry was the tenacity to hold on to my purpose and not giving up. I have faced all manner of battles in life and in ministry. I was told i was not a good teacher and preacher of the word. Someone said i was not called by God and i remember a senior prophet of God even using his pulpit to discredit me and my ministry. But what i have learnt is to hold on until i become that which God wants me to become. Never give up your ministry because of obstacles and accusations of men.
You will make it.
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1.DIVINE CONNECTORS: Divine connectors are the missing link between who you are and who you were designed to be. Most of the the time they look insignificant because they don't have what you are looking for. They look very ordinary but the strange thing about them is that they can connect you to what you are looking for. Naaman was healed of leprosy because there was a maid in his house who became a divine connector. The entrance of divine connecters into your life links you to your future. An encounter with them causes doors to be opened.
Now Naaman, captain of the host of the king of Syria, was a great man with his master, and honourable, because by him the Lord had given deliverance unto Syria: he was also a mighty man in valour, but he was a leper. And the Syrians had gone out by companies, and had brought away captive out of the land of Israel a little maid; and she waited on Naaman's wife. And she said unto her mistress, Would God my lord were with the prophet that is in Samaria! for he would recover him of his leprosy.
2 Kings 5:1-3

2. GATEKEEPERS OF NATION: Gatekeepers of nations are like divine connectors but they have what you are looking for and can help you access that which belongs to you and your generations. They have the influence, ability, connections to bring you to your next level. One introduction from them makes you accepted in greatness. A word from them makes you receive appointment letter without application letter.They turn your prayer topics into testimonies. Joseph was talented but was still in prison but when he met a gatekeeper of nations in the person of Pharoah, he became a prime minister within 24 hours. In the year 2010, I was struggling in life and ministry until the Lord released a gatekeeper of nations in ministry for me. Within 6 months, doors and favors that were impossible were just opened for me. Without my effects and connections I was automatically connected.
Thou shalt be over my house, and according unto thy word shall all my people be ruled: only in the throne will I be greater than thou. And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, See, I have set thee over all the land of Egypt.

3.THE GIFTED: These are a group of divine helpers who are highly skillful in their chosen professions,talented and gifted. When they come into your life, they use their gifts, talents and skills to help you accomplish God's purpose for your life. When evil spirit troubled Saul, it was a gifted person who helped him to be delivered.
And Saul said unto his servants, Provide me now a man that can play well, and bring him to me. Then answered one of the servants, and said, Behold, I have seen a son of Jesse the Bethlehemite, that is cunning in playing, and a mighty valiant man, and a man of war, and prudent in matters, and a comely person, and the Lord is with him.
1 Samuel 16:17-18

4.BURDEN CARRIERS: These people are released into your life to help you carry your burdens when the road to your destiny becomes rough and the burden becomes heavy. They are faithful and available. They stay with you till your glory is revealed; they are the ones whose assignment is to stick with you till you accomplish your purpose.Burden carriers are trusted people you can lean on in times of trouble; they are there with you when everybody leaves.Jesus Christ needed burden carriers to accomplish His assignment. When everyone was gone, the 12 disciples where there with Him.
From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him.Then said Jesus unto the twelve, Will ye also go away? Then Simon Peter answered him, Lord, to whom shall we go? thou hast the words of eternal life. And we believe and are sure that thou art that Christ, the Son of the living God.
John 6:66-69.
Receive grace to encounter your destiny helpers before the year ends.

5. LADDER HOLDERS: Ladder holders are people who keep you grounded in your principles whilst you are fulfilling your destiny.They are the people who help you focus on your assignment when everyone is saying you have arrived. They make sure you don't deviate from your assignment. When you climb the ladder of destiny to the top, you will need ladder holders to hold your ladder steady as you work to achieve great things. Ladder holders know where you are coming from and where you are going and remind you of your goals.

7. THE MAN OF GOD: Men of God are carriers of mantle that makes you matter in the game of life. They are gifts to the body of Christ. Believe in God and you shall be established, believe in His prophets and you shall prosper. Your encounter with a man of God is an encounter with the mind of God.When Saul the donkey chaser encountered the man of God Samuel, Saul became a King. When the disciples encountered Jesus, they became apostles. When the Shunamite woman received, respected and honored her man of God, she became a joyful mother of a child.

8. UNCOMMON MENTOR: An uncommon mentor is a picture of your future; the master key to your success in life. they are people who have been at where you are going and knows the terrain.Their experiences, scars and wisdom will save you from making costly mistakes in life. Jesus Christ mentored the disciples, Elijah mentored Elisha.
May you your destiny helpers locate you in Jesus name

9. THE DISCIPLES: The disciples are a group of destiny helpers that God brings on your path to destiny to help, serve and support you.they are followers of your leadership, who believe in your vision, are persuaded about you and ready to sacrifice to see fulfillment. They have the ability to serve you and your vision. These people are faithful, available and teachable. They believe in your words and put your words into action. They are your legacy to posterity. Jesus needed the disciples to make full proof of His ministry.

10. THE UNCOMMON ENEMY: You will need an uncommon enemy to succeed and accomplish the purpose for which you have been commissioned. An uncommon enemy is a man/ woman God releases on your path to destiny who helps to bring the best out of you as he tries to oppose you and your destiny. It took Goliath who was an uncommon enemy for David to become a star. You need an uncommon enemy who will fight what you carry in order to have a divine promotion in life. An uncommon enemy will give you what your friend will never give. Recently, i encountered a man who told me plainly that he does not like me, but by the time i was done talking with him, he gave me a cheque non of my ministry partners in that part of the world has ever given me.

11. THE UNCOMMON SPOUSE: The person you have married is a refection of your wisdom. Your spouse is a picture of your destiny. The uncommon spouse comes into your life to keep you focused on your assignment. The depth of knowledge of a person is seen in the spouse he/she has entrusted his/her love and destiny to. If i see who you are planning of getting married too, i can tell you of the future you will have.When you have the right spouse, he/she becomes a threat to your adversaries and energizes you to pursue your assignment with excellence. King Solomon's heart was turned from God to the other gods because of wrong relationship. The right marriage will increase your rate of success in life whilst the wrong spouse will increase your rate of failure.

12. JESUS CHRIST: The Jesus factor is the most important factor in fulfilling your destiny. There is judgement after death. What you do with the Jesus factor determines what happens after death. It is not enough to be a preacher, prophesy, be good or even give to the church. Many will say to me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?' Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!'. You must be born again.
May you encounter your destiny helpers now in Jesus name.
Prophet Bernard Elbernard Nelson-Eshun.
( General Overseer, Spiritlife Revival Ministries).

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You are not a biological accident; you are a specimen of God's glory and born to fulfill a purpose in life. Everyone has a purpose to fulfill and in order to fulfill your purpose, there are people assigned to help you accomplish it. Purpose suffers when helpers are not released. Destiny helpers are people assigned in your life to add value, usefulness, and significance to your life; they contribute to your welfare and inspire you to strive to fulfill your destiny. They come into your life to help you fulfill what God has commissioned you to do. They are positioned by God along your path to help you become all that God wants you to become. Naaman needed the little maid, Elijah needed a widow, Moses needed Aaron and Jesus needed the twelve disciples. My life and ministry took a different turn when the Lord sent an uncommon destiny helper my way in the year 2010. An encounter with a destiny helper can let you accomplish a 40 year task in 4 years.

*Destiny helpers are supernatural agents of intervention
*They take you to where God wants you to be
*They are burden carriers for you.
* They prepare you for your destined position.

May your destiny helpers locate you in Jesus name.
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1.IF YOU CAN THINK ENOUGH, WHAT YOU HAVE IS ENOUGH.Your thinking capacity determines your working ability.Productivity is a function of your mental ability.If you can't think it then you can't have it

2.YOUR ATTITUDES INFLUENCES THE QUALITY OF LIFE YOU LEAD-have a positive attitude.Attitudes determine your action.What separates good players from great players is mental attitudes.

3.LEARN FROM LIFE'S EXPERIENCES-You can't change the past but you can learn from the past.Learn from your mistakes and that of others.Every mistake is a teacher. Every success is a teacher

4.YOU MUST HAVE A PASSION TO WIN-Passion converts obstacles to miracles.Passion makes you persevere in the midst of obstacles.

5.THE PRICE OF WINNING IS NOT DOING WHAT EVERYBODY IS DOING-You can always do what everybody is doing in an extraordinary way.Extraordinary things are done by ordinary people.

6.BE A PERSON OF INTEGRITY-If you are going to win you must learn to run according to rules and principles.What sells in the market is the name of the product.When the product losses it integrity it losses it market share.I want to be a man of integrity.Be a person who is right.

7. SET HIGH ATTAINABLE GOALS-Your purpose determines your pursuit.Your pursuit determines your focus.To fulfill your your purpose you must have goals.What are your goals for this month?

8. ACKNOWLEDGE GOD-Trust God for the present and for the future.God will give you a goal that makes you good so you can be bold and go for the gold.A man without God without a goal and is not looking good will always look like a goat.

9.MAKE THE TEAM WORK-Life is a connection of vital relationship.When the team works, the dream works.You are a result of somebody's help. Make a date with SPIRITLIFE REVIVAL MINISTRIES this Sunday at THE NATIONAL THEATRE. 8:30 in the morning

Prophet Bernard Elbernard Nelson-Eshun.
(Senior Pastor,Spiritlife Revival Ministries-The Prophetic City
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1.THE GOD FACTOR-You are a direct product of God. God is the source of your life and existence.When you identify God as your source you will produce uncommon results and the insults will stop.You can't make it without God.When you identify God as your root you bear uncommon fruit to become a living proof.What will you do when you told by a medical doctor that your case is hopeless. Those who do know their God they shall be strong and they will do exploits. When you are complete in God you don't compete with men.Develop a relation with God.

2.PURSUIT OF PURPOSE-Purpose is not determined but discovered.A Discovery of your purpose set you on the race of uncommon achievement.You are on earth for a reason.Discovery of your purpose is not enough.You must be obsessed with the pursuit of your purpose.Your purpose determines what you do and what you say.Purpose determines your friends.My purpose determines my obsession.I love reading because I am on a mission to teach.

3.THE POWER OF MARRIAGE-Who you marry or have married is a reflection of your wisdom.Your mate is a gift from God for the accomplishment of your purpose.Make a decision to make you marriage work.God loves Marriage and hates divorce.Your mate has a responsibility of protecting your focus.Marriage must empower you to fulfil your calling. You will enjoy your marriage.

4.MONEY MANAGEMENT SKILLS-Every young man must develop financial skills and money management skills.Learn how to earn,manage,invest and multiply money.

5.HUMAN RELATIONSHIP AND LEADERSHIP SKILLS-Every thing rises and falls on leadership.Develop human relationship and leadership skills.Joseph got to the palace because someone introduced him.You are just a conversation away from breakthrough.

6.THE UNCOMMON MENTOR-Who is your mentor? Who is your pastor? Whose voice do you hear often? What you hear determines what you become. What you fed on is a pointer to you future.Have an uncommon mentor. Peter the fisherman became an apostle because of Jesus Christ.I don't have time for envy, jealousy and unnecessary competition because my mentor and my spiritual father did not feed me on that.

7.NEVER CRITICIZE,CONDEMN AND DESTROY ANYONE WHO HAS DONE WHAT YOU HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO DO-Every successful person is a picture of what you can become. As a young man have the attitude of honouring the people who have gone ahead of you.Never compete with your mentor.Never criticize, condemn and destroy the person who have helped you come this far. When I see the successful i see what i can become.Learn from their success and their failure but don't kill them. David exemplified this secret when he had the opportunity to destroy Saul.

8. BE A PLUS IN THE LIVES OF MANY-Be a person who empower, trains, support and encourage people to be better than you met them.True success is when your success helps other people to be successful.That means educate, train yourself.Educate yourself i either formally in informally.Read, study to be better than the person you were yesterday.You cant help people if you first don't help yourself.

9.WHATEVER YOU WANT IN LIFE IS AVAILABLE-Whatever you are looking for is available.Success, fame,good health,good marriage is all available.Whatever you looking for in life is a available.That dream is possible.It is possible to be pregnant at the age of 72. Everything available has a price tag.If you want to drive a new car it has a price tag.Pay the price of diligence, self control,integrity,patience.Pay the price for that dream.

10. INVEST IN LANDS AND INVEST IN PEOPLE-Every young man must have investment portfolio.With all your investments, please invest in lands, buildings and people.Buy lands,buy and build houses.Own property.Invest in people.Jesus invested in Peter the fisherman and he became an apostle.I love investing in people.I love training, i love educating. It is my passion.

11.GIVE A ATTENTION TO LITTLE THINGS-I learnt this great lesson from the man who discovered, trained and released me for the work of the ministry-Rev Ebo Assan. My father Rev Ebo Assan taught me how to give attention to little things.Your little beginning is a sign of your greatness.Humble yourself to start small. Don't despise little things.I learnt from my father that Many big things happen when you do small things,. The ability to read and write is because of your knowledge of simple A,B,C...which you were taught several years ago.

12. THERE ARE MANY SECRETS YOUNG PEOPLE MUST KNOW-I am not the sum totality of wisdom and knowledge. I believe that are many secrets young people must know to have a fruitful and fulfilling lives.You can become that great person. I believe in you and your future.It is still possible.Make a date with SPIRITLIFE REVIVAL MINISTRIES this Sunday at THE NATIONAL THEATRE. 8:30 in the morning

Prophet Bernard El-Bernard Nelson-Eshun
( General Overseer, Spiritlife Revival Ministries)
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1.NEVER DESTROY YOUR FUTURE BY WHAT YOU ARE DOING TODAY-You have a great destiny.Your future is hidden in what you are doing today.Everything in your future is already in your present.The choice you make today determines the future you enjoy.

2.NEVER DESPISE SMALL BEGINNINGS-Great things are hidden in small things.Every adult was once a child.The mango tree is in the mango seed.Start with what you have where you are.Small things make a lot of difference.You can't be a great mathematician if you avoid the basics of mathematics.

3.NEVER TAKE FOR GRANTED THE PEOPLE GOD BRINGS YOUR WAY-Whatever God has not given you, He has planted it in someone close to you.People are our link to the top.You must allow your negative experiences with people to provoke you to be a better person.The maid servant in Naaman's house was the link to Naaman's miracle.

4.NEVER TAKE INFORMATION FOR GRANTED-Information is vital in the school of success. The more you know, the better you become.Wherever you are is traceable to what you read, you were told, you have seen or you have heard.

5.NEVER RISE UP AGAINST LEADERSHIP-You can disagree with leadership but never fight against leadership.Your leader has the key to your next level.Your boss determines your promotion.It is foolishness for a baby in the womb to fight the mother.Submission to godly leadership is essential for unprecedented breakthroughs.

6.NEVER STOP PURSUING YOUR DREAMS BECAUSE OF DISAPPROVAL-not everyone will believe in you or your future.Don't allow public opinion destroy your dominion.Human affirmation without God's confirmation is confusion in disguise.Never allow your past to stop you.Never allow your mistakes to stop you.

7.NEVER ALLOW INDISCIPLINE TO DESTROY YOUR FUTURE-Will you trust your 1 year old baby with your car? You can't trust a man endorsing your important documents when he is holding the pen in the right hand and feeding bottle with the left hand.Discipline is operating with the rules.It is indiscipline that makes princes walk whilst servant are riding on horses.

8.NEVER TAKE YOUR TALENTS AND GIFTS FOR GRANTED-Everything you are given is a tool to solve a problem.Everything you are given has answer to your problems.Everything you are given is a tool to change the lives of many.Everything you have been given is a money making machine.Develop, nurture and grow your talents.It will sell.

9.NEVER DESPISE THE WIFE/HUSBAND OF YOUR YOUTH-When a man/woman says I do, it is a sign of great trust.Don't abuse that trust.Help him/her to be better than you married her/him.Of all the people in the world you are the one chosen by that man/woman.Why do you want to take this opportunity for granted.When was the last time you said "I LOVE YOU".

10.NEVER TAKE AN OPPORTUNITY TO DO ANYTHING FOR GRANTED-When you are given an opportunity, maximise it usage.The social networking sites are great opportunity for making Jesus known.It is an opportunity to advertise yourself and product.David grabbed an opportunity and it took him to the palace.

11.NEVER FORGET THAT JESUS IS COMING SOON-Please you can forget a lot of things but please don't forget that Jesus is coming soon.Have you given your life to Christ? Are you winning souls and discipling many? Never forget that Jesus is coming back.

12.NEVER FORGET THAT SOMEONE LOVES AND APPRECIATE YOU-You are an answer to many.Someone somewhere loves and appreciate you. Make a date with SPIRITLIFE REVIVAL MINISTRIES at the NATIONAL THEATRE this sunday at 8:30 in the morning.

Prophet Bernard ElBernard Nelson-Eshun.
(General Overseer,Spiritlife Revival Ministries)
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1.THEY SERVE WITH THEIR GIFTS- I am a student of life.Education is my passion.I learn by observing the successful.Successful people develop their gifts and talents.They serve other people with what they have.Bill Gate is serving the world with his gifts. The essence of life is to be a problem solver.Successful people are problem solvers.

2.CELEBRATE OTHER PEOPLE'S SUCCESS-I learnt that successful people are not only obsessed with their success but they also celebrate the success of others. Those who know how to genuinely celebrate the success of others are the truly successful.

3.THEY RAISE PEOPLE AND HELP OTHERS TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL-Truly successful people don't use their success to intimidate others rather they raise people up.Successful people have the habit of helping other people to be successful. Jesus helped Peter to become an apostle.

4.SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST-Successful people interpret the events of the past in the present so that they can capture the future.Please don't live in the past.

5.SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE DON'T HAVE THE TIME TO GOSSIP ABOUT OTHERS-When i am in the presence of a truly successful person i can tell by what they say about other people.Time is precious and the successful use their time productively. They don't spend time gossiping about the success of others.Envy is a dangerous disease

6. SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE FOCUSED-Successful people keep their focus. Where they are going is more important than where they are.They use the present to focus on their goals.Please don't lose your focus.If you lose your focus you will look like a locust,

7.SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES-Every successful man has made a mistake before.It is not strange that you have made mistakes. Don't focus on your mistakes rather turn them into lessons.

8. SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE SEE SUCCESS-What you see determines what you say.The future you cannot picture can't be captured. What you capture in the scripture is the picture for your future. I see a great life. I see miracles. Make a date with SPIRITLIFE REVIVAL MINISTRIES this Sunday at THE NATIONAL THEATRE at 8:30 in the morning.

Prophet Bernard ElBernard Nelson-Eshun
(General Overseer, Spiritlife Revival Ministries)
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1. NOT RAISING A LOT OF LEADERS: Ministry is a divine institution handled over to man to connect humanity to divinity.It is my belief that the success of the next generation depends on the success of the present generation. Therefore when you are called into ministry you have a responsibility to mentor and raise the next generation. Early in my ministry, i made this mistake of not raising many leaders.I corrected this mistakes by turning followers to leaders through mentorship, seminars and other conferences. Elijah raised Elisha, Jesus raised the 12 apostles. Who are you raising in life and ministry?

2. NOT BUILDING A STRONG STRUCTURE: Anointing is good but anointing without a strong structure will lead to destruction. The strength of any ministry largely depends on its organizational & administrative structure. I corrected this mistake by working on my administration, leadership and planning. It takes strong leadership skills with planning for productivity and profitability in ministry. I also brought on board other people who have the skills i was lacking. I respected their gifts and calling and delegated to them while i focused on the core of my ministry.

3. INVITING THE WRONG GUEST MINISTERS:Not every minister must be brought into your ministry. They may be gifted, anointed and more graced but do you really need their ministry? Are they coming to help you build and strengthen your hands? I made the mistake of inviting 'wrong' ministers to my pulpit and they scattered what i was building. Some of these were genuine preachers but they did not have the spirit of the builder.I remember inviting this particular minister to my ministry and a family that were committed to the Lord, the church and to me stopped coming to church. Ministers with the spirit of the builder will establish your work.

4. NOT GIVING THE CHURCH MY MAXIMUM ATTENTION: In the parable of the talents, they were judged based on what they were given.We will be judged based on what we have been given. I made this mistake and learnt from it immediately. In my early ministry, I neglected my congregation in the name of blessing others with what I have been given. I saw the church not growing and people started leaving the church.I came to myself when some of these ministries neglected me when i went through persecutions. Remember, anyone who does not provide for his own people, especially for his family, has disowned the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. You must bless other ministries with your grace but don't do that to do detriment of own ministry. Young minister, give your ministry all the attention.

5. CONNECTING WITH WRONG MINISTERS: Associations are important for acceleration in ministry. Without godly associations you cannot go far in life and ministry but there are some associations that will jeopardize your life and ministry.This mistake nearly cost me my life and ministry. Who are your friends? Who do you listen to? Who do you submit to? Your life can never change until you change the dominant voice in your life. You need Godly association. Which platform do you minister on? Check it young minister. You don't need jealous driven, envy packaged ungodly associations.

6. NOT MAKING GOOD USE OF LITTLE OPPORTUNITIES: I made this mistake in my first two years in ministry. I have learnt from it and I now know that you can do so much with so little. Never despise small beginnings. I now turn little favors to great opportunities

7. NOT MAKING MY MATERIALS MORE ACCESSIBLE: I love writing because writing is my passion. I have a lot of materials on various topics but i realized that my materials are not easily accessible.Young minister, start writing. put your thoughts on paper even if you are not ready to publish them. You must have a product: a book, CD or any other product. You can pastor your ministry beyond the confines of the four walls of your church. Become innovative. Facebook, twitter, whatsapp, instagram, linkedin, google plus, youtube and many others are good platforms to make your materials and teachings available but be careful.
Prophet Bernard Elbernard Nelson-Eshun.
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 1. YOU ARE THE EXPRESSION OF HIS MINISTRY: A pastor's wife is the first ministry of the husband. You must become the first fan of your husband and his ministry. Your husband will go through accusation, criticism and persecution and you must be the first person to stand with him.The success of his ministry is an expression of your success. Be the first person to demonstrate strong belief in your husband and his ministry. There will come times of discouragement but remember that your husband needs a cheer leader. He needs someone who believes and encourages him, and he needs you to be that someone. You might know all his shortcomings but demonstrate belief in him and the ministry. Send him a message after he is done with preaching. Tell him how great a minister he is.

2. HIS MINISTRY IS AS STRONG AS YOUR MARRIAGE: A strong marriage plays a pivotal role in the success of a ministry. Behind every successful ministry is a successful family life. Marriage was instituted by God to make things better for the man and woman in it. When you understand God's purpose for the marriage institution, it will go a long way to help you build a successful life and ministry. The ministry of your husband is only as strong as your marriage. The enemy would do every thing to fight your marriage and your husband's ministry but do everything in your power to make the marriage work
And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Genesis 2:18.

3. UNDERSTAND YOUR UNIQUENESS AND PURSUE YOUR VISION: You are unique and special to God and you have a responsibility of discovering your uniqueness and purpose as you use it to be a blessing to your husband’s ministry. You are a peculiar specimen of divine glory and a creature of great value. You carry the answers to the questions of the world. You have impeccable abilities, talents and unusual grace. Discover your uniqueness and purpose and use it to be a blessing to his ministry. Discover your placement in God’s agenda and pursuit. It is my belief that not every pastor’s wife is called into the preaching ministry but I also believe that every pastor’s wife must be able to teach and preach the word in her unique way. The five fold ministry was established for the perfecting of the saints to do the work of the ministry. Look out for the area in your husband’s ministry where your gifts and talents are needed and start using them.

4. DEVELOP STRONG LEADERSHIP SKILLS: It is a great privilege for your husband to have you in his life and ministry and likewise a privilege for you to be connected with him and his ministry. You and your husband must not take the privilege of being partners in the Lord’s vineyard for granted. Every privilege comes with responsibilities. As a minister’s wife, you have the responsibility of being a great blessing to him and his ministry and one of the ways of doing that is to develop leadership skills. The development of your leadership skills will help you draw the best out of other people and inspire them to maximise their potential. Everyone has the capacity for leadership but the capacity must be developed. 

5. PROTECT YOUR HOME. Your home is not an extension of the church and you have the responsibility of protecting your home. Set the atmosphere permissible in your home. Not everyone who knocks the door of your church is trustworthy.Your first responsibility is to minister to your husband, as a helpmeet not as an associate pastor and your second responsibility is that of a mother to your children

6. PERSONALITY OF THE MINISTER'S WIFE: Personality is the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual's distinctive character. The life of the ministry and that of the family is the backbone of the ministry. The minister and his family must constantly work on their personality to sustain what God has put in their hands. When you neglect your person, the ministry suffers. You must be approachable, friendly, not easily provoked but firm.Work on who you are and become a motivator and an inspiration to many.You cannot be a successful minister's wife if you are insecure and have inferiority complex. If you are insecure, bitter, bad mannered, you will destroy your husband's ministry.

7. DEDICATION OF THE YOUNG MINISTER'S WIFE:Dedication is the quality of being committed to a task, purpose, someone or giving yourself and services completely to a cause. The young minister's wife cannot go far and be successful without being dedicated.Your priority as a minister's wife is to be dedicated to God, your calling and your husband.When you are completely sold out to God, your calling and your husband, success in life and ministry becomes automatic.
...but the people that do know their God shall be strong, and do exploits.
Daniel 11:32

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